Overcoming Prayer Obstacles : Daily Salah tips in Mosques

Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim. (بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم). 
As-Salamu Alaykum (السلام عليكم)

Dear Readers!

Prayer is an essential component of the Islamic faith and is often considered a mandatory act of worship for Muslims. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said that the five daily prayers are the most important acts of worship and are the key to Paradise. The mosque, as a house of Allah, provides a unique environment for this connection, amplifying the benefits of prayer through congregation and shared devotion. As an Islamic practitioner, health, and psychological consultant with over 10 years of experience, I have seen firsthand how developing a consistent prayer habit transforms lives—spiritually, mentally, and physically. 

But how do we make it a consistent part of our daily routine? It's a beautiful aspiration. Note that, you are not alone in your struggle. Allah has honored you by placing in your heart the desire to fulfill this part of your relationship with Him, no doubt. And I am sure that you can!

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In the hustle and bustle of modern life, making time for our five daily prayers can sometimes feel daunting especially at the mosque. In this blog, we will discuss the importance of performing the five daily prayers and provide tips on how to make it a good habit in shaa Allah. It's not always easy, but the rewards are truly immeasurable. Let's dive into some practical advice to guide you on how to perform this important Islamic practice consistently.



When most people try praying five times a day, no matter how many prayers they actually make, they face some amount of guilt if they didn’t get a perfect score of 5 out of 5, on time, every time. Of course, the prayer itself shouldn’t be just a routine, but the psychology of habits and routines makes it much easier to get yourself to the prayer. 


Understand the Power of Salah:


Before we discuss habits, let’s reflect on why prayer is essential. Performing the five daily prayers is a fundamental pillar of Islam. Salah is not just an obligation but a divine gift. It cleanses our hearts, purifies our souls, and grants peace amidst life’s chaos. 

Quranic Ayth

"O you who have believed, when [the adhan] is called for the prayer on the day of Jumu'ah [Friday], then proceed to the remembrance of Allah and leave trade..." This verse specifically addresses the communal Friday prayer, urging believers to abandon worldly activities and gather for worship. (Surah Al-Jumu'ah (62:9). It is a way for Muslims to establish a stronger connection with Allah and seek His guidance and blessings throughout the day.

Life can be hectic. Work, family, social commitments – they all vie for our attention.  Often, our good intentions to pray in the mosque get pushed aside by the demands of daily life.  We might start strong, but gradually, the habit fades.  This is a common struggle. 

The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said, 

1. "The first deed that the servant will be held accountable for on the Day of Judgment is his Salah." (Tirmidhi). 

2. “The five obligatory daily prayers, the Friday prayer followed by another Friday prayer, Ramadan followed by another Ramadan, expiate sins committed in between them as long as major sins are avoided,” (Muslim). 

3. “The first thing the people will be accountable for on the Day of Judgment is prayer. Allah will say to His angels (even though He already knows), “Look at my servant’s prayers. Were they complete or not?” If they were complete, it will be written as complete. If they were not fully complete Allah will say, “See if my servant has voluntary prayers.” If he has them, Allah will say, “Complete his obligatory prayers shortage with his voluntary prayers.” Then the rest of his deeds will be dealt with in the same manner,” (Ahmad).

Regular Salah improves focus, reduces stress, and enhances mindfulness, promoting mental and emotional well-being.

The Significance of Congregational Prayers:


The mosque is a sanctuary of peace and unity, where believers come together to worship and strengthen their faith. The benefits of praying in group is splendid. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized the significance of praying with others, stating that it is 27 times more rewarding than praying alone. Praying in the mosque fosters a sense of community and belonging. Standing shoulder-to-shoulder with fellow Muslims strengthens the bonds of brotherhood. The collective recitation of prayers and Quranic verses enhances our connection with Allah and fills our hearts with tranquility.


Build a Strong Intention (Niyyah):


Every action in Islam starts with a sincere intention. Develop a personal motivation that resonates with you, and remind yourself of it often. Reflect on the immense benefits of Salah—spiritual fulfillment, mental clarity, and a sense of community.  Tell yourself daily: “I am committed to performing all five Salah in the mosque.” A strong intention aligned with the love of Allah (SWT) is the foundation of success.

Use a planner or a mobile app  just like any other important appointment. Repeating positive affirmations strengthens your motivation.  I kindly ask you to write a list about your daily tasks, and mark them in order from the first until the least important. The “must-dos” come first. Then place your prayers and worship at the top of the list. Everything else is to be adjusted accordingly. For example, if you know Zuhr is at 1 pm, plan your lunch break accordingly, allowing time to pray in the mosque.

Considering Prayer as a Refuge:


Make a list of everything God has given you for which you should be grateful. For an item of gratitude, allow yourself to understand that each and every prayer is an investment in what and whom you love in life being maintained and increased. As He tells us, "If you are grateful, I will surely increase you…” (Qur’an 14:7). 

Also make a list of all the hardships you or loved ones are currently facing. Then, for each of the five daily prayers, take one item off one of those lists and take it to salah. He confirms, “Is He [not best] who responds to the desperate one when he calls upon Him and removes evil…” (Qur’an, 27:62).

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Surround Yourself with Mosque Community: 


The mosque is more than just a place of prayer; it's a community hub.  Make friends with those who regularly attend the mosque. Having someone to hold you accountable can significantly enhance your commitment. Join Islamic study circles, prayer groups, or community gatherings to stay inspired. This sense of belonging can provide invaluable support and motivation.

Being in an environment where prayer is a priority will naturally reinforce your own commitment.

Baby Steps: 


Don't feel pressured to change everything at once.  Begin by focusing on just one prayer, perhaps Fajr or Isha, and commit to praying it in the mosque for a week.  
Once you've established that routine, gradually add another prayer, and then another, until you're consistently praying all five in the mosque.

If attending all five prayers daily feels overwhelming initially, consider starting with a few and gradually increasing your attendance—even if you start slow, your progress will. Establishing a new habit takes time and effort. Consistency is the lead key to a steady habit over time. 

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Prepare in Advance:  


Make it easy for yourself.  Wearing comfortable and clean clothes, keeping your prayer mat ready, and performing Wudu (ablution) beforehand makes prayer preparation smoother. This will eliminate any last-minute excuses.  Knowing where your keys, phone, and prayer essentials are can make a big difference.

Ablution (Wudu) keeps the body clean, improves circulation, and enhances spiritual tranquility.


 Practice Gratitude and Forgiveness:


On your journey to establishing this habit, be kind to yourself. It’s natural to face setbacks; what matters is getting back on track. Cultivating gratitude for the opportunity to pray and forgiveness for occasional lapses can help you maintain a positive outlook.


Make it a Family Affair:  


If you have children, involve them in your mosque visits.  Take them with you, explain the importance of prayer, and encourage them to participate.  This will instill good habits in them from a young age and strengthen your family bond. It fosters a sense of calm and clarity, allowing you to focus better on daily tasks.

Stay Mindful and Focused:


During your prayer, focus on Allah and let go of any distractions or thoughts that may arise. Engage in your prayers with sincerity and humility, and strive to strengthen your connection with the Divine. Remember that each prayer is an opportunity to seek forgiveness, guidance, and blessings from Allah.

Seek Inner Peace:


Performing the five daily prayers at mosques can have a profound impact on your overall well-being. It allows you to take a break from the hustle and bustle of daily life and find inner peace and tranquility. Embrace this sacred time as a chance to reconnect with your spiritual self and nourish your soul.

Make Dua:  


Ask Allah for guidance and assistance in establishing this beautiful habit.  Dua is a powerful weapon, and with sincere supplication, anything is possible. A sincere du’a can move mountains. Ask Allah (SWT) daily to make prayer easy and beloved to your heart:

“O Allah! Make my heart attached to the mosque and my feet firm on the path of prayer.” Du’a builds reliance on Allah (SWT), deepening your faith.

Make Salah Your Lifelong Habit!


Over the years, I've witnessed countless individuals transform their lives through consistent prayer.  I've seen the peace it brings to troubled hearts, the strength it provides in times of adversity, and the guidance it offers on life's journey. By following these motivational tips, you’re not just enriching your spiritual life, but also enhancing your mental and emotional well-being.

Remember, the journey to establishing any good habit takes time and effort.  Don't be discouraged by setbacks.  Just keep striving, keep praying, and keep seeking Allah's help. Almighty Himself tells us, “And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive.” (Qur’an, 2:45-46). 

When the going gets tough with your prayers, always remember that God has been, is, and always will be there for you:

“I am as My servant thinks I am. I am with him when he makes mention of Me. If he makes mention of Me to himself, I make mention of him to Myself; and if he makes mention of Me in an assembly, I make mention of him in an assembly better than it. And if he draws near to Me an arm’s length, I draw near to him a fathom’s length. And if he comes to Me walking, I go to him at speed.”

May Allah make it easy for us all to establish, bless us with steadfastness and maintain the beautiful habit of daily prayer in the mosque. May your journey towards a closer connection with Allah be blessed. Aa-meen.


Jazakum Allah Khairan. (جزاك الله خيرا.)


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